"Don't be so safe, you miss the fun."


The image above is from one of my favorite children's book authors, Dallas Clayton.  If you aren't familiar with the super awesome Mr. Clayton, check out one of my favorite books of his (er, Henry's favorite book of his) here. And what a fitting quote, huh?  I think it's pretty perfect, because the whole idea of just kind of 'letting go' is always on my mind during the summertime.  I wouldn't say I'm uptight by any means, but as much as I love life I sometimes I find myself needing to be reminded to relax and kick back. It's something I actually have had to work at, as weird as that sounds. Luckily I ended up marrying one of the most fun-loving people I've ever met, so Hank really does a good job of reminding me to just relax and enjoy, and together we've gone on a lot of adventures that I look back on and smile.  He gets me out of my comfort zone, and over the past seven years I love how much that's changed me. We balance each other out well. And when I saw this quote on Dallas' tumblr, I knew I had to share it!

Happy Monday everyone, and have FUN!  Here's to light hearts, adventures, and making the most of these last days of summer.

xoxo

Arizona Locals Giveaway: Tara O. Photos


Today I'm excited to present a giveaway from a sweet and talented gal by the name of Tara O.!

Tara O. Photos is graciously giving away $75 towards your choice of a photo package!  This credit can be used towards family photos, a pinup session, engagement or wedding package. Some packages (such as the starting family package and two-look pinup package) are only $75 so you will either be getting a free shoot, or a chunk out of a larger package. Shoots are done out of Tara's home studio or on location in the Phoenix area. Tara is willing to travel to Prescott, Flagstaff or Tucson to meet the winner, but there will be an extra travel fee.



 From Tara:

I consider myself to be a very classy lady, and I started photographing around age ten setting up photo sessions of my younger sister in our bedroom. My primary style is retro and vintage inspired pin ups; but I do weddings, family photos, engagements, bands and fine art. I have a home studio and cannot wait to one day own a business space to photograph out of! I am open to almost any project and like to work much like a custom tattoo artist. I get an idea and reference from my client and then come up with something bigger, better and unique! I got my Bachelors of Fine Art in Photography from ASU in 2008 and have been doing freelance since about 2007. I live in Phoenix with my handsome fella, Mike and our two adorable Rottweilers, Lou and Edina.



Giveaway details -

For one entry: 

leave a comment letting me know what kind of shoot you'd like to win, along with your name and email address.

For a second and third entry: 

simply "like" Tara O. on Facebook or follow her via Twitter, then leave a comment below letting me know you did so, along with your name and email again.

I'll choose a winner one week from today! Good luck!

Sunday.

Today was a good day. We spent the better part of the afternoon strolling around downtown, and soaking up the very last bits of summer that fell smack dab in the middle of our three-day weekend. Although it was a little too hot for our liking, I kept reminding myself that soon enough it'll be cold and snowy, so rather than complaining we found enough shade and treated ourselves to iced drinks at Wild Iris. Let me tell you, their iced coconut tea is to die for. Absolutely delicious. And it was a lot of fun walking around amidst all the tourists who come up on holiday weekend to take in the arts and crafts fair, the cooler temperatures, and the small-town feeling our home exudes. There was cotton candy, hot, toasted almonds, and enough freshly squeezed lemonade to go around for days.

I kept thinking about how at the close of next summer Henry will be a whopping almost-two!  It was kind of off-putting for a minute, and I got really sad...but then really excited. It's hard watching your baby grow up so quickly, the changes happen so fast and in the blink of an eye it seems like your little newborn is crawling, standing, walking. Heartbreaking that you can never go back, but equally as joyous that life is moving forward. Bittersweet is the best way to describe it. More sweet than bitter, but bitter none the less. So today in the late afternoon sun, I promised myself that I would stop focusing on the 'bitter' part of it. Just to accept it. Be happy. Celebrate the new stages and all of the new milestones. And instead of being half-happy, holding back a part of that to focus on being sad, I'm going to try my best to just be happy.  Keyword: try. ;)

Happy Labor Day weekend, everyone!

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Friday links...on a Saturday

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Happy weekend! We're right in the middle of our three-day weekend and having a great time!  I'm staying pretty far from the internet and soaking up all of this family time and absolutely loving it. In the meantime, here are some links for you to check out. Have the best Labor Day!

The lovely Susannah featured my pal Jess and me in her Connections series! Be sure to check it out and learn more about how we became friends on this wide internet world.

I also shared a "get up and go" playlist on my sweet pal Kelly Ann's blog! Listen here.

I loved these thoughts on having another baby. We definitely are going for number two next year (yay!), but it's always so interesting to me to hear what other women think about this topic.

Things Single Girls Wear. Love Carynn, and love this.

How cute are these prints?

Liz's monogram round-up is right on.  I especially love those cookies.

I love to bake, and I loved this cupcake decorating tutorial.

Jazz Age Lawn Party inspiration. So good.

One of my readers, Angela, is doing a Shop My Closet- there are some cute things in there!

Ms. Srsly Liz's  free download is awesome this month! Spruce up your desktop.

I really, really enjoy Ashley's Phoenix-area restaurant reviews, and this one is no different!

I adore the shape of this bag for fall.

I love this simple list of Ten Good Things. I may have to make my own!

Are you from Tennessee? I so wish they had an Arizona one.

One of my sponsors just opened up registration for a new, inspiring workshop all about being your best self. Definitely worth a look- it looks awesome.

And finally, congratulations to my friend Jess on her magazine cover! So exciting.

Happy weekend! xo

Today and tomorrow: an accidental letter

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Hi and hello!  How are you doing? I'm not really sure why I started this post like a letter, but I'm just going to go with it. So, consider this a letter to a friend, from a friend! ha. :) I sure hope you are in fact doing well, having a great day, and have an upcoming three-day weekend full of fun to look forward to. Aren't Fridays the best? When I was a teacher we had half days every Wednesday so it broke up the week so perfectly. By the time you got that mini-day mid-week it felt like the week was almost over and work flew on by. Now that I stay home, the days all feel the same if I don't plan things to break it up.  Right now we have a little routine going with storytime at the library and standing playdates with mama friends, but it's still hard to know what day is what.  But of all the days, I love the library time most of all, because it reminds me a lot of my own Mom and the fun afternoons we'd spend looking through books.  You know that quote- "Children are made readers on the laps of their parents." I feel like that couldn't be more true.

And on the subject of books, I've finally gotten around to reading Divergent, thanks to two Laurens in my life (my sister and Ms. Busy Bee!).  I love it so far and it's definitely in the vein of The Hunger Games, so if you like that series, check it out. Granted, I'm only about a quarter done, but I can tell I'm going to love it.

In other news (bad, bad news)...I have a consultation today for my wisdom teeth. Funny story- Hank got his wisdom teeth out a few months ago, and I think I may have said annoying things like, "ahh I feel bad for you, I love that I don't have any wisdom teeth!" Yup. I was under the impression that I had no wisdom teeth and then proceeded to kind of rub that into my ailing husband's swollen face. ;) How I thought that was the case, I really don't know. But a couple weeks ago when I was getting my teeth cleaned, I mentioned how relieved I felt that I didn't have any, and my hygienist came back with "Really? I don't think you're right, let me look in your file." So to make a long story short, apparently a teeth cleaning that happened way back in May 2008 (the week of our wedding) had produced a slip of paper to go see the doctor about my wisdom teeth, which do in fact, exist.  In the craziness of that week it totally slipped my mind and apparently disappeared all together.  So, bringing us back to the current sad state of my impacted wisdom teeth, they must come out, and today I'll find out when. I shudder at the thought.

But in better, non-terrible-teeth news, there are few things I'm really excited about this month:

the "anniversary" of Hank and my first date. It's been seven years now and we still celebrate this special little day. Maybe silly, but I love it.

Sarah and Andy get married in just a few weeks and I'm so excited to stand up as her Matron of Honor. It's going to be such a beautiful night.

a girl's trip to Vegas I'm taking at the end of the month. I'm going with my friend Anita, and meeting up with a bunch of other fun ladies, some of which you may know from around the blogging world.

I'll be back later with some links, so until then have a great Friday.  And since this is a letter I'll end it like one -

Love you, and talk to you soon!

Danielle

9 to 5: Mandalay Love, Flight Attendant

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This week I'm really excited to feature an old friend of mine, Mandalay!  Mandalay and I met when she rushed my sorority in college, and from the moment I met her I adored her. She's a lovable, fun, spunky girl who adds so much positivity and life to any situation she's in. She's also one hell of a go-getter, and her career is one of the most interesting of anyone I know. When she agreed to partake in this little project I was elated; I knew that all of you would find her incredibly inspiring!  So thanks again Mandy for being a part of my blog today!


Tell us about yourself.


My name is Mandalay Roberts. I am a 27- year old originally from Phoenix, Arizona. My family is very 'blended' and I am lucky to say we all get along and support each other 100%. I relocated to San Francisco in 2007 with hopes of becoming a teacher in the Bay Area. When I made the move, unfortunately the area school districts were laying off almost 2000 local teachers. So, I went to plan B. I was searching for jobs on YahooHotJobs,com and came across the need for 'Inflight Teammate' at Virgin America. Intrigued, I went searching through their website to get a feel for this new airline. Just the website alone was sleek and sexy and had an incredible vibe. The airplanes were equipped with black and white leather seat, mood lighting, TV screens on each seat back which allowed people to watch TV, movies, listen to music and order food and drink on demand. The only problem was that Virgin America had yet to gain the go ahead from the Department of Transportation in order to fly. I thought to myself, eh, minor technicality, this airline sounded amazing! So I went ahead and applied for the position. To my surprise, I received a phone call that night to set up an interview a few days later. I showed up to my interview in Burlingame, CA just south of San Francisco, and had a great time in the group interview setting. That night, I got another call asking if I would be interested in beginning training a few weeks later. I could barely contain my excitement as I said yes. I was Virgin America's newest Inflight Teammate.


I have now been with the company for 4 years and have had incredible opportunities to be part of Virgin America's first advertising campaigns as well as their 8 episode series on the CW called FlyGirls. It has given me the flexibility to move from San Francisco to Los Angeles to where I currently reside in the Lower East Side of Manhattan. I love the people that I work with and the excitement of being able to hop on a plane to see friends back in SF, attend a wedding in Hawaii or head home to recharge with my family. Being a flight attendant is a glamorous yet grungy and mysterious lifestyle. For some it is a short hobby, for others, it is a life-long lifestyle that never lets go.

  
(that's Mandalay front and center! Sorry Mandy, I love this fierce photo of you and had to use it! ;) )
  
Describe a typical day at work.

The traveling public may not know that flight crew must arrive 1 hour prior to departure time to check in. We then have time to meet with our crew (three Inflight Teammates and two pilots) we are given a quick briefing on flight time, guest load, crew communications and a few other odds and ends. Safety equipment is then checked on board to ensure everything is in proper working order. As soon as we are all prepared, the guests are then sent to board the plane. Once everyone is in and seated, we are then ready to begin the flight. The plane then pushes back from the gate and the flight crew starts getting paid.

During the flight the most important role we have is guest safety. I, knock on wood, luckily have never experience an emergency while flying. I have seen my fair share of passer-outers (try to hydrate as much as possible before, during and after your flight) and a few non-life threatening medical incidents. But beyond the drinks and snacks we serve, we are there to make sure travelers get from point A to point B as quickly and safely as possible.


Did you always want to be a flight attendant? How did you get into this field? What kind of schooling or background did it entail?

I never had aspired to be a flight attendant, but as I said before, the ease of which it all came to be was something I couldn't ignore. Once I was hired, the only schooling necessary was provided by the company in a rigorous 4 week training course at Virgin America's headquarters in Burlingame, CA. We had to complete a series of written tests as well as emergency simulations in order to pass the training. Four weeks seems short to be qualified to do what we do, but I promise, it was an butt-kicker.


Is this what you hope to do for the rest of your life? If so, how do you see yourself growing in this career? If not, what else do you dream of doing?

I have really enjoyed my time flying around the country meeting all kinds of interesting people and hearing fascinating stories, but I am hoping to move on to something that allows for a little more stability in the near future. Being gone three to four days a week makes it difficult to nurture relationships the way they deserve. Although the ability to jump on a flight at the drop of a hat has its benefits, so does a 9-5 that allows one to be home each night.

I will always look back fondly at the experiences of being part of an innovative airline that gave people a reason to enjoy flying again.

In 10 years I hope to be pursuing the career for which I have always had a passion, and that is education. Where ever I end up planting some roots and having a family of my own, I hope to be able to give back to the community where we live and become a teacher at a local elementary school.


If you could tell your 17-year old self anything about your life today, what would you tell her?  

Take some time to see the world before deciding what to do with your life
Learn a second (third, fourth, fifth) language
Listen more, talk less
Be open to meeting people and hearing about how they contribute to the world. You can learn something from every person.

Hello, September!

the leaves are starting to turn!

I'm not sure what it is, but the moment September 1st rolls around I feel like fall has arrived, even if the weather forecast still reads summer.  I love fall, and every year without fail I get so inspired and feel so excited about all of the fun things just around the corner.  Luckily we live in a town that sees all four seasons, and autumn is especially good to us here, turning the trees beautiful shades of copper and yellow and red, and giving me a reason to unpack my coats and hats and scarves. This fall in particular brings around a lot of excitement- Henry's first Halloween, his first birthday, and the first fall as a stay at home mom. What that means is a lot more time to perfect my pies and cook autumn treats (hello anything and everything apple and pumpkin!). And what this also means is getting to pick out a very special costume for the little guy and decorate our house for my most favorite holiday. Ahh, I really can't wait.

So with that said, welcome September!

What are you most favorite things about fall? I don't drink coffee but if I did I may have to add one of those delicious looking Pumpkin Spice lattes I hear so much about to the list.  And of course another fall favorite: apple cider! Yum. Happy "almost-fall!"

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I LOVE Fall.

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