Birthday thank yous!
Thank you all so much for all of the sweetest birthday wishes! You all managed to make me feel so special, and I appreciate each and every one of you taking the time out of your day to wish me a happy birthday. Today was so wonderful. Henry let me sleep in a bit, my family and I went to breakfast, and then we spent the rest of the day swimming, eating delicious food, and laughing until our sides hurt. I'm ending the night on my parents' couch, curled up next to Hank, looking through the million photos we took today. I can't wait to share them tomorrow. I hope all of you had a magnificent Sunday also. If today is indication of the rest of the year, it's going to be a good one!
xoxo
8 weeks to a better me: Week 5/Loving Life & Having Fun!
This week I am so excited to have one of my favorite blogging friends here on Sometimes Sweet, Lauren of Busy Bee! I recently and very briefly met her at the AZ Blogger Meetup, but since then I've gotten to know her better through her blog, twitter and Facebook. And let me tell you, I adore this girl! She's truly a burst of sunshine, and Busy Bee is just such a witty, fun and beautiful addition to my daily "must-read." When I thought about this topic she's someone who immediately came to mind- Lauren is a girl who lives a deliberate life. And by that I mean she chooses to fill her life with good energy, chooses to be positive, and in turn inspires so many other people to live authentic, positive lives as well. It's a great thing, and I'm so happy to have Lauren here to share her love for life with everyone.
A special thank you to all of you who have been participating in 8 weeks. Your goals are all so inspiring and it's neat to see how everyone looks at the topic a little differently. You all motivate me so much and I really appreciate each of your comments, messages, and linked posts. I've had so much fun reading through them! And now without further ado, here's week five with Ms. Lauren!
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hi, everyone!
my name is lauren, and i blog over at busy bee lauren!
i am so honored that danielle asked me to guest post on loving life and having fun!
this topic has such a special place in my heart...
i am girl in her early twenties who married her high school sweetheart, and has a pretty dang blessed life. but, i have battled serious depression and anxiety most of my life, so it can be a challenge to be happy a lot of the time. i am constantly looking for the beautiful and wonderful things in life that make getting up each day worth it.
the following things have helped me love my life:
[1] look for beauty in everything & document it!
i always carry my camera with me, just in case i see something that inspires me at that particular moment. i look back on my photos, and it brings back memories of how i felt when i took the photo. and 9 times out of 10, it's a feel of gratitude of knowing we are so blessed to experience such beauty in our lives!
[2] dress for yourself, and do it each day!
develop your own style that makes you happy! i have found that when i look my best, i feel my best. i have made it a habit to always get dressed in a cute outfit, even if it is just to go mail a letter at the post office, or to pick up some groceries. don't dress for others...dress to make you happy :) and beyond that, dress in a way that expresses who you are.
[3] never speak negatively about your significant other...
my husband makes me happier than anyone on this entire earth. and our love for each other is a great source of happiness. i have made a commitment to never speak negatively about him, even if he sometimes drives me bonkers. they key to happiness is to love. and love is something you have to work at. but it's the most rewarding thing you could ever have!
thank you, danielle for letting me share with all of you my ways to have a happy and awesome life!
1. I also really love documenting my life, and it makes me so happy to be able to look back when I'm sad and relive happy times. It always makes me smile. And to go off of what Lauren wrote for number one, I think it's so important to see the beauty in the little things. This week I am going to take my camera with me wherever I go and capture the beauty (big and small) in our days.2. Goal number two is to simply dress for me everyday. Wear a pretty sun dress, a cute blouse, things that make me feel great and happy. This week will be a no yoga pants and tank zone!
3. My third goal is not to say one negative about anyone for this entire week. I really liked what Lauren said about not saying anything negative about your partner, and I never ever say anything negative about Hank, but sometimes I do find myself saying random things while out and about. Like, "um why is she wearing that?!" That's just mean and there's no need for it. So, this week that's my goal. No judging. I think it will really add to the positive energy in my life to kind of zap out that little bit of negativity I let float around from time to time.
How about you? What are you going to do this week to add to the quality of your life, to have a bit more fun and enjoy the beauty in our everyday? I can't wait to read what you share!
Birthday dinner!
Last night some of my best friends all got together to celebrate my (early) birthday! It was SUCH a nice surprise, and it was so great to be in such great company and enjoy such delicious food. I didn't even know about the dinner until the evening of, so it was really neat to have the entire thing planned without knowing anything. I love my friends. We had dinner at Pita Jungle and then had some of the most delicious red velvet cupcakes baked by my darling Sarah! They were seriously to die for. I blew out a candle, made a wish, and got even more excited about my "golden birthday" year! I know it's going to be a good one. Tomorrow is my real birthday (the 29th) and I'll be celebrating with my family! We're having a meat/vegan bbq and both Hank and I will be blowing out candles! As for now, Hank and I are off to celebrate Nate's 30th birthday, Western style! Have a great Saturday.
Here are some photos from dinner:








Here are some photos from dinner:
Henry: 6 months
Okay so THIS is my favorite age so far. Henry is turning into the biggest ham, the sweetest boy, and every single day his personality emerges a little more. It's just such a joy to wake up to him every morning- to go into his room and see him sitting up, waiting for us to pick him up. He raises his arms when we say "up?" and then give us the sweetest smile. I don't know if my heart could get any bigger.
He's still exclusively breastfeeding and we haven't introduced anything else yet. He doesn't use a bottle so it's been all me this entire time, with the exception of about four times. I think we are going to start with rice cereal next week, and go from there. We're definitely taking it slow though, and I'm still planning on breastfeeding until he's at least one.
Henry's reached a lot of milestones this month with the biggest being crawling! I spoke about it in a previous post- he's been moving for quite some time now, but it's only been in the past couple of weeks he's gotten the crawling down pretty well. Now if I take my eyes off of him for a second he's across the room, it's pretty wild!
As far as sleeping, we went through a few nights last week that were a little difficult but now things are back to him sleeping from 7pm until about 7am. Sometimes he'll wake up at 5am, and when he does that we'll usually go for an early morning walk and he'll fall back asleep. Henry's taking two naps a day- one anywhere between 9 and 10am and another around 2pm. Sometimes he'll take three, but lately it's just been the two. And most recently he's been taking 2-3 hour naps at a time.
This month Henry:
has begun to crawl
can fully sit up on his own
can move from sitting to laying down to sitting again easily
can pull himself up to knees and almost to standing
will wake up, pull himself up in his crib and start chewing on the rail
can pick up multiple objects and move them from hand to hand
is "talking" a lot
loves to watch Madeline run and play
can't get enough of "The Isty Bitsy Spider"
rides in his stroller without the carseat
will put his arms up when we say "up"
is still sucking his thumb
self soothes himself back to sleep
is fascinated by clapping hands
loves when his papa tosses him up in the air
is very into "reading" and books
loves his rubber blocks and stacking rings
sleeps either on his side or on his stomach, with his butt in the air
loves to laugh and smile
Henry's 6 months check up is on June 2nd, so I'll share his height and weight changes next week. Right now he's wearing 9 month clothing, but his 9 month pjs are getting a little short on him so I'm thinking he's grown quite a bit! This may sound silly, but I'm excited for him to get into 12 month sizing- boy clothes are so much cuter from that point on. And speaking of clothes, Henry's Grandma Cheryl got him the cutest outfit for Hawaii and the lake- boardshorts, a tee, and little surfer sandals. Next weekend Henry will be starting swim class at the Y too, and I'm really excited about getting in the water with him and getting him used to it. Hank pretty much grew up on the water every summer and I know once Henry gets a bit older it will be the same.
So, happy six months Henry! I can't believe our little guy is already half a year old. Everyday we fall more in love, and I can't wait to see what the next six months hold.
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A Slice of...Humboldt County, California!
Oh hello, Sometimes Sweet friends!! We are Michelle and Chad (and Dharma and Bodhi, too!), and we’re pretty sure we live in the most magical place on earth (Disney World ain’t got nothin on us!)…and that’s why we want to share it with you! If you live in the US (or not!), you should most definitely make our home your next vacation destination!
Greetings from Humboldt County, California!
At first, we thought maybe it was just us and the excitement of being somewhere new and completely different from the dry, hot, crowded desert that we were used to, but we soon learned that we are not the only ones who feel a sudden wave of tranquility the moment we pass the Humboldt County sign on Highway 101, like a breath of fresh air…real clean air! Its funny how many people don’t even know of this place, but I think we secretly kind of like it that way. We live right on the coast in Northern California, when you think “Nor Cal” you probably think San Francisco and that’s about it…but there is a whole enchanted world beyond the bay that you must explore! From San Francisco, take the 101 North and in about 4 hours you will be in awe of your surroundings…thick forest and rolling hills as far as the eye can see, not to mention the majestic ancient redwoods old and wise and grander than anything you have seen before(unless you’ve seen a dinosaur, then you win). And that’s not all, there are a handful of fun little tourist traps along the way…you know you need a redwood burl of a bear, or a Bigfoot, or…Shrek.
The drive takes you through The Avenue of the Giants, the One Log Home, and Confusion Hill (where the water runs backwards in the stream!). You’ll pass through a few small towns with one main row (along the 101) of independently owned shops, restaurants, cafés, and natural foods stores. You’ll feel like you’re in a hippie mecca, and you totally are…hippies love Humboldt, fact. ;)
We actually live in Eureka, which is a small coastal town (we can see the bay from our back porch!) and like all the other towns along the way, the 101 runs right through it. It’s actually our main road through town and not at all like the highways and freeways of a big city. We are actually a big logging town (more heavily in the early days) and there is an insane amount of history here. Our neighborhoods are filled with beautiful Victorian homes painted in some of the wildest color combinations we’ve ever seen (its fun to say you live next door to the teal, lime, orange, yellow house or the pink and gray house with the gargoyles)! And there is the coolest house in old town Eureka called the Carson Mansion, it’s was used as a model for the Haunted Mansion at Disney Land (see…told you it was magical here! We inspired Disney Land. Holler!).
We have 5 local farmer’s markets each week (there are actually more but we go to just 5 of them…that’s plenty), and everything is amazing and delicious and fresh! They are vended by the farmer’s themselves and everything is local, and it’s far less expensive than shopping at the grocery store. We have a huge local food scene, and because we aren’t exactly located in the most convenient location for delivery (you should see our gas prices…insane!), we have the most sustainable community we’ve ever lived in…not perfectly so, but far far better than anywhere we’ve been yet. In addition to local produce we also have local coffee, a local tofu shop (this means nearly every restaurant in town has local vegetarian options, seriously awesome!), all kinds of local cheeses, dairy, and eggs, local Humboldt free range grass fed beef (you can visit the farms for yourself!), and also incredible local products like jams, sauces, vegan cookies and cakes, vegan jerky, vegan chocolates, and honey. We have an amazing natural foods store and our co-op has the best bulk section we’ve ever seen (we sometimes take our guests there like it’s a tourist attraction)! We aren’t really big drinkers ourselves, but we also have 3 local breweries and a handful of great wineries too, all award winners! We also have some really fantastic restaurants, almost all catering to vegetarians with vegan options too. And we love knowing that even when we eat out our food is fresh and local, we don’t have many chain restaurants at all (we do have a sizzler, of all things) and our towns actually have ordinances against big business, only allowing a certain number of corporations in (we are proud to say we do NOT have a WalMart!!). We even have one fully vegan restaurant called Wildflower, in Arcata…vegan mac and cheese, vegan french toast, vegan rueben?...delicious!!
We also just to happen to have a really great arts community and we have a few local art nights each month. But not only are there painters, sculptors, crafters, graffiti writers, photographers, film makers, dancers, singers, any-instrument-under-the-sun players, bakers and candlestick makers…we have inventors too! Check out the Kinetic Grand Championship! We have a lot of concerts and little festivals year round, and our community of people is overall very artsy, loving, open, and peaceful…it is not rare to get free hugs here in Humboldt. One of our favorite spots in town is called the “Devil’s Playground” (we have no idea why it’s called that, there is nothing particularly devilish about it), it is an abandoned truck docking station behind the mall (the “mall”), that has been taken over by artists. It is such a rad place!
Art gives life to the things people have forgotten.
We live in the trees, man (imagine our best Tommy Chong impression here)!
It’s seriously so amazing! When else will you EVER be in the Ewok Village? Let’s be real. If you ever get the chance to visit the Redwood Forest, we highly recommend it we have had some incredible experiences among the ancient trees of Humboldt. There is something deeply humbling about little tiny you in a thick forest of giants. We have a lot of great places for woodland adventures here! Right in town we have the Arcata Redwood Park, which is located right next to Humboldt State University and Sequoia Park in Eureka, but there are forests all around us so we could pretty much head in any direction and be in the trees (unless we head towards the ocean, but we’ll get to that later). Our forests have a feeling all their own, and no matter what time of year it is, the colors are so impressive! It is like a vivid green empire of ferns, moss, leaves and foresty things. And mushrooms! We have so many fungi! And if you pass the giant Paul Bunyan and Babe the Ox, be sure to pull over for a photo! And check out the Trees of Mystery!
Flippin magical dudes, we’re tellin ya!
Fern Canyon is a rad spot located off the highway down this long bumpy dirt road, into the mystical land of Jurassic Park! Well okay, there aren’t any dinosaurs…but they did film here! Even without the dinosaurs, Fern Canyon is an epic place for an afternoon adventure. (Run around like screeching like velociraptors if you want, we don’t judge.)
Chad proposed to me by the river in Avenue of the Giants…so romantical.
The trees are seriously huge…just in case you didn’t believe us.
We also live right by the ocean…yes, THE ocean! Not the kind of beaches you go to for swimming or laying out with a book, it’s too cold for that (although we do have rivers, which are awesome for swimming in the summer!). We have the kind of beaches that make you have to pick your jaw up off the sand, like completely breath taking. If you are a photographer you should come here to take your next prize winner, and if you’re not…your pictures will look awesome anyway. ;)
We don’t go in the water because it’s freezing (also I am not interested in leaving this world as a snack), but Dharma does! Oh, and surfers, surfing is pretty big up here. There’s Loleta Beach, Samoa Beach and dunes, Clam Beach, Moonstone Beach, Lufenholtz, College Cove, Trinidad, Patrick’s Point State Park, which has the agate beach…and those are just the ones we go to! Our beaches are dope! It is the only place we’ve ever been where the forest floor turns to sand and opens up to the ocean, all in one 20 minute hike. One side of you is trees and the other is ocean. It’s…magical! (have we mentioned?)
Yay! We hope we didn’t bore you with all of this awesomeness. ;)
And we hope you come visit Humboldt on your next road trip!
Living here has completely changed our lives, and we feel it has helped us grow into the people we are now.
If you can spend some time here or even just pass through and pull over at one of the view points, you’ll know just what we mean.
Much Love homies.
May the force be with you…nanu nanu.
M+C
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